Anonymous: I recently lost my virginity, I've had sex about 5 times so far. The first time hurt really bad, and it's not as bad now but its still a little painful and difficult. I've noticed it hurts more when I'm on top or when he's going fast. Also it's really difficult for me to get excited enough to be wet even though we do a lot of foreplay.
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